The $100 Dollar Startup

FOLLOW YOUR PASSION

PUTTING YOUR HEART IN ALL YOUR DO!

Okay, okay, I have to preface this blog and say that I am in no way condoning, quitting your job follow a passion for a job that is:  illegal, immoral or involves copious amounts of narcotics.

Keep Calm and carry on

I am currently reading “The $100 Startup” by Chris Guillebeau, which I mentioned I would do in my previous blog post. For those of us over 50 finding a job is tough, no doubt about it. Sometimes it seems as if it were a job battle between the “young-uns” and the older, “season-uns,” where those with experience and knowledge in the job market get cast aside for these “up and comers.”

On the other hand, you could be mom who has been out of the workplace for oh so many years and for financial (or maybe personal) reasons has decided to go back to work. If that is the case, going back to school is a very good idea; if that is not an option, you could take classes for free at the local Goodwill or Opportunity Council. But let’s say you are an adventurer, an entrepreneur at heart. If so, here is where this book, The $100 Startup, just might help you.

So, it is time to check up on your options. Well, according to this book, your options are only limited by your imagination.

logic and imagination

According to Chris you can (as many have done and he gives real life examples) “Reinvent the way you make a living, do what you love, and create a new future.” Sounds good, right?

So, what does all this involve? This book, really explains it all with positiveness, suggestions and real life examples of people stepping away from their comfort zone and actually making a living doing with they like to do. It even goes into self promotion (a skill I personally really need to work on.)

Now, I borrowed out $100 Startup from the library, which you might be able to do too. If not, Amazon.com has some really great deals in regards to people who resale books in pretty darn good condition at a much lower cost than the actual “for sale on Amazon book price.”

So, take a chance and get this book for help in doing what you love or really, really like to do.

take a chance

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Memorial Day Tribute

Memorial Day, All game some...Some gave all

Memorial Day. It is a day of pain and remembrance for many and a tribute to those who have fallen in the service of our country. It is also day of sadness for the families and loved ones whose soldiers who never made it back home again home.

My father was one of the lucky ones, he fought in WWII and was part of the French Resistance. He joked that he was assigned this position because he wasn’t good at soldiering. Whatever the case, he made a difference and lost friends in the war. He never spoke about his experiences and I respect that. My dad is long gone, but he will always be a part of me, as the soldier’s who lost their lives in service will always be a part of our country. Their valor, their pain, their lives are as much as part of our nation’s fabric as my father will always be a part of me.

Note: The “National Moment of Remembrance” resolution was passed on Dec 2000 which asks that at 3 p.m. local time, for all Americans “To voluntarily and informally observe in their own way a Moment of remembrance and respect, pausing from whatever they are doing for a moment of silence or listening to ‘Taps.”

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Over 50 and job hunting, good luck

Job hunting in no fun. Okay, maybe if it is fun if you have wonderfully marketable skills and experience and the trolling job finder Head-hunters are knocking at your door eager to present you with the high-paying job of your dreams. It can  happen and has happened to many of today’s worker, but not for the average worker and especially not for the worker who has been a stay-at-home mom whose “chicks” are now out of the nest and she is prepared to go back into the workplace. Certainly, the skills she had prior to children (PTC) were remarkable, but now that this particular woman, lets call her Beth, is 55 years young and looking for a family wage job.

First of all I tell her, good luck as it seems today’s job market is centered on the youth of today. However, according to the Huston Chronicle, women over 50 can find jobs in sales (?), office jobs (receptionist), tax preparer, and  healthcare (this is a very hot job market.) Sounds, good, but kinda boring. However, a job with an income, with a good income is a job worth looking into.

Now for those with much too much imagination or ego, there is the entrepreneurial bend in the proverbial job road to financial success.  There are books from experts telling us what to do to achieve this lofty financial success goal; such as: the 4 1/2 star rated kindle book entitled, “The Road to Financial Freedom – Earn Your First Million in Seven years.” Then he qualifies this magnanimous statement with the key to his book which is a list attached to his title, “The Road to Financial Freedom – Earn your First Million in Seven years: What Rich People Do and Poor People Do.” Sorry, but this title does not inspire confidence in me, as an over 50 yr. old woman, to purchase his kindle book and find financial freedom. Figure those halcyon wage/money earning days of endless possibilities are gone. So for myself, I will pass on this particle Kindle info book.

Then we have the book by money/life guru Tony Robbins (is he still around?) Anyway, his book (another 4 1/2 star rated book) entitled, “MONEY Master the Game: 7 Simple Steps to Financial Freedom;” however, he is promoting a life-long business plan and his book is chock full of interviews, word pictures and positiveness. Do I sound a bit cynical, well I am. However, there are those who swear by Tony Robbin’s advice and are doing quite well, so who am I to say that it is wrong. It may not be wrong, but for a job hunting, income hunting worker, I am thinking his advice might not be really relevant.

I am thinking that for myself, I will go on the path to financial freedom the entrepreneurial way. And you know, there is a book for that as well. (Not that I am endorsing it, but just saying.) The book is entitled, “The $100 Startup: Reinvent the Way You Make a Living, Do What You Love, and Create a New Future.” Now this intrigues me. After all, it doesn’t guarantee that you will make a financial killing and makes loads of money. Hey, everything could go crashing and burning if you follow the advice from this book, but who knows it could work. So, being a person willing to take a chance of making a fool of herself once again, I will go the library, check out this book and see what advice it gives. And if it is interesting enough, I will post my findings and honest observations about following the advice from this book. What the heck, I might just learn something. And if enough people find this interesting, the next book I will review online here in The Aspie Mom Blog will be Tony Robbins, “….Money Master” book.

Stay will me on this, I believe this will be alot of fun and I would love to hear your input on what has worked for you in finding work and maybe even financial freedom.

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Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Yes or No?

stressful homework

Being the free associating Aspie Mom that I am, I was wondering the www aka World-Wide-Web looking up neuro-science (don’t ask) and came upon the theory that Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) is very helpful for those of us special folks with Autism.  I mean, Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD). (Unless you live in a small town and the only place, let’s call it “Happy Thinking, now on your way”, informs you when you call and ask if they are taking new patients with Aspergers and are told that CBT is not for those folks with Autism.

“Happy Thinking…” is wrong, of course, but everyone is entitled to their opinion; and frankly, if they are not familiar with ASD, then I sure wouldn’t to be their first. But, I digress.)

For those of you who don’t know what CBT is and if it indeed does help those with ASD, let’s hear what the Mayo Clinic has to say, “Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) is a common type of talk therapy (psychotherapy). You work with a mental health counselor (psychotherapist or therapist) in a structured way, attending a limited number of sessions. CBT helps you become aware of inaccurate or negative thinking so you can view challenging situations more clearly and respond to them in a more effective way.”

In other words, CBT can help people “reframe” as it were, inaccurate or negative thinking so that when presented with a challenging situation which might usually scare or confuse them.  CBT is also used, according to the NAMI website: “…CBT have shown it to be an effective treatment for a wide variety of mental illnesses, including depression, anxiety disorders, bipolar disorder, eating disorders and schizophrenia. Individuals who undergo CBT show changes in brain activity, suggesting that this therapy actually improves your brain functioning as well.

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Just be yourself

Just be You!

I remember as a young child my mother telling me, “Just be yourself and you’ll make friends.” Easy to say, but not so easy for a child with undiagnosed Aspergers in the 1960s. At that time science was still baffled by children with Autism and Aspergers, some experts saying the Autism was a part of Schizophrenia.  However, where I lived if a child was quiet and awkward you thought of a “cute” by parents and encouraged to “talk more” (which is difficult when  you are afraid of saying something stupid or just not knowing that to talk about) and made fun of by many of your peers. Life can be cruel, especially the life of a school-age child who is just “different.”

However, the Aspies and those with more severe Autism are in a sense fighting back against what is considered normal into days world.  There are those who know Bill Gates and Paul Allen and say they have Aspergers aka Autism Spectrum Disorder as it is now called. Others with Aspergers or suspected as having Aspergers are: Dan Aykroyd, James Taylor and even….Vladimir Putin.

All in all, it is good to know that there are others like us who have done great things. It is okay to be different. Remember what Oscar Wilde said, “Be yourself. Everyone else is already taken.”

Just be you!

Just be you!

 

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A New Beginning…

Going my way?

“Who do you think made the first stone spears? The Asperger guy. If you were to get rid of all the autism genetics, there would be no more Silicon Valley.” —  Temple Grandin

This is the first of what I hope will be many writings about – The Adventures of Aspie Mom!

At the age of 55 yrs, I was diagnosed with Autism Spectrum Disorder aka High Functioning Aspergers and ADHD. Wonderful, I thought to myself. Wonderful in that my awkwardness in social situations, trouble with finding and maintaining friendships and my hyper-focus on things that interest me such as dogs, Cave Art and folk music (none of which is a popular item of discussion with the average person) is due to a genetic variation that makes it difficult to do so. Yay me!

Actually, it has taken me awhile to fully appreciate my “being different;” and my slightly annoying laser like focus on discovering the “why” of things. For example, in pre-calc, (I’ve gone back to college, but that is a whole other story that perhaps I will write about later) what is with the i symbol, which for some unknown reason, denotes a imaginary negative numbers. Imaginary?

Can I defend what the professor has deemed a wrong answer by telling him that my answer was not wrong, but that I used the used my own imaginary alphabetic letter (let’s say q) and that my answer is correct because I have decided it is so? Probably not.

However, regarding the officially recognized imaginary “numbers,” I am guessing that there was once a party of drunken mathematicians who decided, “Let’s screw with people’s minds and create imaginary numbers. Heh, heh, heh.”

Okay, back to my returning to college. Well, besides the joy of learning and expanding my horizon aka brain, it can be kinda depressing going back to college when you are older, much older than the majority of the students. It is even more depressing when you realize:

  1. That your instructor is the same age as your daughter.
  2. The fashion of the 60’s has never really gone. Modified peasant blouses and tight jeans. Please…..been there and done that ages ago. (However, I pray that the infamous Nehru shirt never makes a comeback.)
  3. I will never ever wear a skin tight tube-ish with ruffles top. (I have my pride, but not the figure I had in my 20s.)
  4. Finding friendships in college for oldies, at least for me, is rare. If you are older and try to be friendly to a younger man, they think you are being a cougar. Now there is nothing wrong with older women and younger men. Matter-a-fact, a 23 year old veteran liked the freedom of “being” with an older woman. No expectations other than sex. Sigghhhh…
  5. Female friends are very rare.  Be friendly to the young-uns and you come across as a mom (at least I do as I am a mom) or worse, a “person of non-interest.”
  6. Most textbooks are heavy…. really really heavy, which is great if you want to build up your shoulder and back muscles. But, if you hurt your back or have bad knees or just not strong enough, you purchase the backpack on wheels which makes a really horrific rolling noise as you walk to class (Okay, I did use that wheeled pack one quarter, and did appreciate the ease.)

That is all for now.
Take care, watch yourself and always use a napkin when eating.

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Aspergers Warrior

I am a collector of positive thinking quotes. It is what I do to battle my depression.  As I have been blessed/cursed with Aspergers (aka High Functioning Autism) , and it seems that depression is part of my life. Does everyone with Aspergers suffer with depression? Probably not, but it seems that the majority do.

Perhaps it has something to do with the sadness and frustration of not quite fitting into the “regular” world, missing social cues, that are so important in communicating with other people and in my actions or words being misunderstood. Whatever the case, I read somewhere that it is good to collect positive sayings to make one feel better. So, I have done so and  have posted a few around the house. Below is one of my favorites. believe-in-yourself

It is hard to be yourself when yourself is so different from the rest; however, I take comfort in knowing that there are a lot of others with Autism Spectrum Disorder and other non-typical brain connections who equally have trouble with their emotions and reading people. So, I think, for myself it is best to think of it as a battle. A battle of which each victory is silently measured by  how far I have stepped away from fear and actually accomplished my objective. I am a warrior, and will always fight to be who I am, to enjoy life and those around me with similar interests, and laugh with delight each of my personal victories.

Believe in yourself

© S. Rees 2016

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